“How many of you would have sex with an AIDS infected partner using a condom?”
By Rusty Wright B.S.
Starlight dances off the sparkling water as the waves gently lap the shore. A cool breeze brushes across your face as you stroll hand in hand along the moonlit beach.
The party was getting crowded and the two of you decided to take a walk on the deserted waterfront. You’ve only known each other a short while but things seem so right. You laugh together and sense a longing to know this person in a deeper way.
You pause and tenderly gaze into each other’s eyes, blood rushing throughout your body as your heart beats faster. Soon you are in each other’s arms kissing softly at first, then fervently. You tug at each other’s clothes and both kneel to the sand. The condom comes on. You join in passionate lovemaking, then relax, hearing only the gentle waves and each other’s breathing, grateful that you are comfortable in mutual care and that all is safe.
Or is it?
Was the condom you used enough to keep you safe? Aside from the emotional and psychological implications of your romantic encounter, realize that the condom is not a 100% guarantee of safely against AIDS for the same reason the condom is not a 100% guarantee of safely against pregnancy. There’s always the possibility of human or mechanical error. Condoms can slip and break. They also can leak. Even the experts aren’t certain condoms can guarantee against sexual transmission of the HIV virus.
Theresa Crenshaw, M.D., has been a member of the President’s Commission on HIV. She is past president o the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapist and once asked this question to 500 marriage and family therapists in Chicago: “How many of you recommend the condoms for AIDS protection?”
A majority of the hands went up. Then she asked how many in the room would have sex with an AIDS infected partner using a condom. Not one hand went up.
These were marriage and family therapist, the “experts” who advise others. Dr. Crenshaw admonished them that, “It is irresponsible to give students, clients, patients advice that you would not live by yourself because they may die by it.” What does this tell you about the confidence experts have in condoms to protect persons against AIDS?
Not too long ago herpes caught the public’s attention. Now, of course, the focus is on AIDs. As with herpes, it is very difficult to be absolutely certain that your partner in premarital sex does not have AIDS and there is not known cure. But, of course, there’s a big difference between herpes and AIDS: herpes will make you sick; AIDS will kill you.
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